The Last Chapter
This is the very last post of the “My Journey to The Cage” series and it has really been a great journey. I started this when, in preparing for my MMA debut, during wrestling practice, I violently ruptured my ACL… the beginning of a long lay off and, at 36 years of age, many though of it as the end of my martial arts “career”.
It is surreal to think that this happened two years ago; at this time back then I was about to enter the operating theatre with a ruptured ACL, torn meniscus and MCL. In two years, thanks to a great surgeon, rigorous discipline, continuous rehab, the right people around me and a massive dose of POSITIVE MENTAL ATTITUDE I managed to move on and get a few things done:
Run a few 10K races
Won a National Kickboxing title
Lost 12Kg (26.4lbs)
After having, according to others (still waiting for the video to watch), won the first round, landing a couple of effective spinning back kicks to the body, a few punches, a slam a la Jimmy “Crash” Quinlan, a few knees and a Guillotine choke which wasn’t too many miles away from being the one move to get me the W, on the second round unfortunately I got caught in a bad spot with my opponent taking my back and patiently sinking in a RNC which eventually got me to tap. You can read a full review here (half way down the page)
But I won anyways! I had immense fun and achieved something great! When I ruptured my ACL (and in a really bad way) and then decided to that I would have not stopped, that I would have made it back, many said “you are too old”, “you should do something else” they said, “your knee won’t be the same” they said.
I did’t feel old and the knee is better than before! I fought and loved it. This is my victory.
I was awarded “Entrance of the night” award and I have not done anything extraordinary to get it. I have not walked out with dancers, a mask or some special effect. I simply walked in there with true excitement, enjoyment and fun! It isn’t about WHERE we are heading to, it’s really about HOW we get there (not just in MMA, in life too)!
Of my 70 days camp (including the fight itself) I had 69 days, 23 hours, 59 minutes and 59 seconds of absolute BLAST and pure euphoric ENJOYMENT! And only 1 SECOND of “bad” time when my neck was being squeezed like an orange.
I have seen countless athletes (and people in all walks of life) hating or not enjoying most moments of what they were doing hoping to get the enjoyment-payback from a positive result… Guess what, positive outcomes aren’t always predictable and sometimes take a long damn time to come if they come at all! Sure it feels good to win and succeed but I believe that it’s only through unconditional love for what we do that we can be successful – win or lose… And when we truly love what we do the win always comes.
I lost but I feel confident that the guys at BCMMA , the crowd who paid to see the fights, my friends, colleagues, sponsors, my team and all involved would have me back. And I believe they would because I loved it and love spreads Moral of the story for me is, we must either learn to enjoy what we do or do something we can enjoy. Any other option is a waste of life!
It really does not matter where you are at today, it does not matter how far your destination seems at this stage, if you set your goals, make a practical plan, surround yourself with the right people and be persistent and consistent, you WILL achieve your goals! The biggest mistake we can make is to let circumstance dictate our future.
We are our future, what we do today will dictate what we become tomorrow, don’t be a product of your past, write your own story, act now as the hero of your story and DECIDE your future!
The most spacial thanks has to go to Jack Mason for all his advice and help… the man is a true LEGEND of the sport and an insanely amazing coach!
Thanks to all the sparring and training mates! And Luke Barnatt for being a continuous inspiration!
Thanks to Ciaron and all the Genies at Genie Ventures for the support.
Thanks very much to my sponsors and coaches who help me look, feel and fight good